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The Meaning of BEING 'PONO'
Language is the window through which fundamental foundational precepts of a society can be examined. If we look at the words used to describe human behavior we will see how a specific culture perceives a specific behavior. For instance, there are no obscene or even pejorative words in the Hawaiian language relating to the sexual act. None! That indicates to us that love making in all it's many forms are viewed as natural and acceptable in the traditional Hawaiian culture.
Conversely, there is not a word in the English language that expresses the meaning of "pono" in the Hawaiian language. The Hawaiian-English dictionary devotes one half page in the attempt to convey these layers of meaning in English. So, what does it mean to be pono? In the Hawaiian thought, being pono means being in perfect alignment and balance with all things in life. It means one has the perfect relationship with the creative energy of the universe, however you might describe that energy: God, Goddess, prana, mana, chi - whatever that appellation is for you. Your every thought word and deed are in complete harmony with that divine energy. Pono means you are in complete harmony and alignment with your custodial relationship with the earth. That you operate on the earthly plane as one who is the caretaker of the land during your lifetime. That your stewardship of the land leaves it as good or better than you found it so that succeeding generations can enjoy the resources that were gifted to you in your lifetime and during your stewardship. Pono means that you have a proper respectful relationship with your parents, with your spouse or significant other, with your children, with your extended family members and with your co-workers. Pono means that your relationships with others are just and fair and untinged by anger, jealousy, resentment or any negative energy. You are in harmony and in integrity. Discord is resolved with ho'oponopono - the setting right of bad feelings. Ho'oponopono must be entered into with a sincere desire by all parties to resolve differences - not an opportunity for "right fighting". A mutually respected arbitrator manages the process of making right so that all parties feel the matter is resolved and no longer exerts any negative energy on the parties involved. When the process is complete, the parties are pono with one another again. Harmony is restored. In truth, every action in life is either pono ... or not. And humankind's assignment is to be pono in all things. An ali'i, or chief, who was not pono would not be tolerated for very long. The ali'i's job was to provide the best possible life for his people. If he consistently failed in his duty to do so, the people would find a way to dispense with him. Individuals who choose to be other than pono would find themselves outcast from the society as a whole. Pono is a concept worth adopting in our own life. If each of us really aspired to be pono, if we accepted our implicit agreement to be a pono spiritual being, a pono guardian of the earths resources, a pono daughter or son, a pono spouse, friend, co-worker, employer, government servant - what a different world we could live in. I think it's a concept worth working for. Your Kumu THINGS I KNOW FOR SURE
I appear before you seventy-five years young. I have been blessed with really great genes for which I can take no credit. However, maintaining what nature has given me has been a conscious decision on my part. It is my firm belief that health is a matter of body, mind and spirit.
Some things I know for sure are that the body doesn't know the difference between what the mind thinks is happening and what is really happening in our life. So it behooves us to maintain positive thoughts to nurture our body. I know for sure that negative thoughts - whether they are directed toward ourselves or outside toward others - are stored in our very cells. Knowing this requires me to be the guardian of my own mind. It is my responsibility to give my energy to positive thinking. I never criticize my body! I might yearn for a slimmer figure, but that is a matter of my willingness to create such a figure. Being negative and critical of the body that I have is counter productive to my overall health and well-being. Any self depreciating thoughts (i.e. "I hate my - --", fill in the blank) will be stored in my cells as truth. The hate will lodge there and eventually create dis-ease. I know for sure that gratitude is the most important and powerful force there is. I know that if I start each day with gratitude, my whole day becomes a good day. I start by appreciating this magnificent machine that is my body. I continue by being grateful for strong legs and good feet. I express gratitude for hard working hands. I bless the heart that has been working for me since before I made my entrance to this earthly plane. I express gratitude for my lungs which provide me with life-giving breath whether I am waking or sleeping. I express gratitude for all of my precious organs, one-by-one, that work day and night to support my life. I know for sure that this positive appreciation and gratitude heals and repairs my body. It is my personal experience that the love and appreciation of the hula and its healing power has played a significant role in maintaining health, joy, satisfaction and enlightenment in my life. My spiritual commitment is to uplift not only my own spirit, but to uplift those who honor me by being my students. Share the bounty! These are some of the things I know for sure. Pattye Kealohalani Wright |


